Was on leave since Friday..syiokness I tell ya.. What did I do? ok here goes..
Friday: Hairdo at Derek's with marcie. Hair colour ? Done!Tat Derek not bad ar.. few mths nvr go his shop now expanded already.good good..Then went down to town cos marcie wanted to get some stuff and met up with Ratna. Wat do u get when 3 women meet up? Chatter and lafter and shopping galoreee!! habis sudah harta aku ..cheh mcm byk jer heheh
Saturday: Swimming session with the cousins and geng. Photos? I nvr take.Was too busy enjoying myself. Click
here for the photos from my cousin. Warning!! May need eye repair after viewing hehehe
Sunday: BBQ at lin's abode. Photos? No haf cos again, I was too busy having fun. Dah mcm chilcare seh with the kids running around. Ngan the babies lagi..mcm nak pitam..every year makin increase the of kids in our group.hehe photos with yani so wait long long lah f0r her to upload heheh
Monday: Stayed at home whole day. MIL came over with food!! Rojak mamak and satay!! moi fave. She's staying over till Wednesday.
Tuesday: At home again cos nvr stopped raining since Monday nite. Went to Apit's school to purchase his school books. then went to NTUC to purchase some BBQ steamboat stuff. had BBQ steamboat for dinner . Yummy ..
So there goes my long weekend. Gotto work tomolo. haiya.. a lil draggy but hey only 3 days of work before another longgg weekend!! yahhoooo!!
Wistful for Love
10:17 PM
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Havent been anywhere this weekend.My schedule's full just by being at home.But it's ok ..had fun entertaining the boys.I have a longggg weekend planned next week. Can't wait for it. It ain't so bad staying at home. Mum decide to have her own BBQ rite here at home in our own kitchen. I mean a real BBQ ok with charcoals and all.
It was ok initially but after a while the house filled up with smoke.erekekek terrible seh.. Apit was crying cos his eyes smarted with the smoke. Aide was asleep so the smoke didn't bother him much. I was more concerned that the neighbours would call the fire brigade hehe. So we quickly finihsed up wat we had to BBQ and just sat down chit chatting munching on our food. Never mind will have a real BBQ at aide's birthday celebration next year. Won't be long now so aunties standby your pressies erkekek especially thoose JAN aunties..
Today, I had many "visitors" since 11am in the morning. Was surprised that one fo the "visitors" was my old schoolmate Syed with his fiance. Anjat kejap when he walked in. Padahal the nite before baru bebual kat MSN. hehe we'll see how things goes lah eh ..
I was on rajin mood today so cooked up some Sugee. Konon nak beat the Changi Village super delicious Ramiza'a Sugee ar.. Well not bad for my first try but hmm I think I can do better next time. Still can be improved heheh
4 more days of work before I embark on my Nanie day. erkekek Once a year jer dpt Nanie day tau .. excited nyerrrr.,...
Wistful for Love
11:44 PM
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Reached almost 9pm after doing some OT. Was watching Prison break when I tot I was hungry and wanted somethingto munch. So just cooked up a simple dish. ried butter prawns. hehehe and just merata like tat .. ok lah at least not so heavy even tho Prawns are quite high in Cholestrol .
Ok today will be the day I shall bring my darling home. hehe can't wait to meet him. Miss him so much already. Just hearing and talking to him over the phone everyday dun help much, only makes me miss him more.
Before that, it 's Fantastic Fondue Friday today!! meeting up the girls for some lonnngggg overdue fondue! Yum Yum.. Also to celebrate
marcies's bday. Belated lah of cos. heheh. Can't wait to meet them for more hilarious moments.
Come back for update on our meet up... tata
Wistful for Love
4:50 PM
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Been hiding in a corner somewhere planning my attack, deciding what is the best way to slaughter and kill. Total termination!!!
Kwa kwa kwa..no lah just been busy at werk.I had so many things to write about but rite now I dun even know where to start. The beginning of ths week has been crazy. People I was dependant on played me out. Darn! It's ok ah mebbe I was at fault too. Seems like people who do their job unprofessionally won't get far. Should have heeded hubby's advice. Hopefully the team of Darryl, Nik and Raymond will do the job.
So, on another note, this week and next will be full. Apit is away at his Nyai's place till end of this week so I am taking the chance to do more OT and meet up with my girlfriends while I can. Those who are willing to meet up anyways which are the usual lot like Yani, Ida and Marcie. Seems like they are the only ones always there for me. It dun have to be dinner at power packed places or even coffee at prestigous places lah. Duk kopitiam pun aku happy lor. Oh we dun need to be driven around either to meet up so dun have to worry about where to park or how to get there hehehe.
It takes up all kinds of people to make up this world dun you think? People who seems to be happy always going out with friends all around yet you sense that they are lonely. Going home to nothing. I realized that even though I am not well off, I have my family. I go home to my two boys and my mum. At least there's something to look forward to at home rather than just face the 4 walls . Even if you have many friends, everyone at one point, will have their own family commitments to take care of first. Where will you be then? Sitting away at a corner tapping away on your PC/laptop, dreading to go home cos there's nothing to go home to. It's a pitiful sight dun you think? Else you put yourself on such a high pedestral you can't afford to tilt even at the slighest angle. The slighest cracks irks you and makes you go haywire.
Criticism is supposed to be a building material. Learn from them and better yourself with it yet there are people who get so defensive about it. Getting all flustered and over reacting. Drama Mama you tell me? Hehehe I haven't used this term for a long time. Seems like someone new is taking over this title now. Deception; you tell me to what level should it be used? To friends? business associates? Just a simple rule ok .. one lie leads to another and soon your little white lie will turn into a big huge one. Where do you draw the line then? Telling different people different sides of the story only reflects badly on yourself. When these people get together and innocently trade stories, the truth will come out won't it?
I hate people who play other people out especially if that person is something close to me. Trust once lost is so darn difficult to be earned back you know. I've been there..Well, you learn about such people as the time goes by. All I can do is to stay away. I have my own life to take care of. My own shit to deal with. Can' be bothered much with others.
Funny how you think your life is bad yet in front of you, you see people who are more pathetic than you even though they put up a pretty picture. And then you think, hey, my life ain't that bad after all. erkeke
Wistful for Love
8:27 AM
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My family is not like other families who get to spend quality time every weekend. Hubby has been on shift work eversince forever, even before I knew him. There are times when I won't get to see hubby up to 3-4 days at a stretch due to our different working times. Can be very frustrating I tell ya.
Pity Apit who is on school holidays yet we can't bring him out much. All I did was to buy him workbooks for him to practice on to prepare for his K1 next year and colouring books to occupy his time. He was especially very happy when his cousin slept over for a few days and he played like there was no tomorrow. They ate, played and slept together. Dah mcm belangkas seh.
This week, I took every opportunity to take Apit out when hubby had an off day even if it was on a weekday and I had to rush thru my work to meet them after work.
First it was to NY Pizza to fulfill Apit's cravings of having pizza. I brought them to my usual spot with the girls. We had our delicious dinner and I can see Apit too enjoyed himself.
Then we headed for dinner again last nite . This time Apit really enjoyed himself.There a Christmas display that blew giant bubbles every few minutes. Apit went crazy chasing after the bubbles and popping them and we walked around the shopping centre. Had our dinner and Apit insisted we take some pictures with the displays and his all time fave our lampu lap lip as he calls them .
No more outings for Apit after last nite. He will be staying over at his Nyai's for a week! A whole week I tell ya I am gonna miss him soooooooooooo much. I took leave during the Christmas period so that I can bring both boys out for that long festive weekend. It shall be our lil mini holiday in Singapore. I hope he will enjoy himself and remember these moments as sweet memories.I hope he will remember that even tho I wasn't able to bring him on any overseas trip nor buy him expensive toys or bring him out every weekend like any other kids would do with their family, at least he would know that I still love him and have good memories of his young time with his Ibu n Ayah.
InsyAllah, son, one day, Ibu will be able to do all the things I was unable to do with you. I won't let you feel inferior to your friends. I may not furnish your life with luxuries but I strive to fill it with happines and sweet memories.
On another note, I received 2 good news this morning. Alhamdulillah, our lives will soon change and we will achieve the dreams that we have put on hold for so long now.
Wistful for Love
1:09 PM
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This might be the darkest gloomiest period in my life. Everything seems bleak and no more hope. Yet there is a flicker of comfort and strangely enuff, I sense a lil happiness in my heart. I wonder why.
It's ok. I guess I am used to it by now. I know there will be sunshine soon enuff. My world won't always be gloomy and dowdy. Perseverance and patience will have to be my main strength for now.
It's ok if you know and realize where you stand and who stands by you in such times. Just dun forget those who stood by you in times of needs. Forsake them not when you are home free.
I need a rest. Time for a nap. Or mebbe just a walk down by the beach with a Mr Softee in my hands, feeling the seabreeze thru my hair. Hmm think I might just do that seeing Changi beach is just minutes away. Why not? see ya....
Wistful for Love
12:11 PM
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At this point of time..... all I can feel is...
SLEEPINESS!!!!! Ergghhhhh work has been completed considerably. There's more to be done but am leaving it for the end of the day. need a lil bit of OT for the year end expenses.hehehe
I wish I am at home comfy under the comforter and warmth of my darlings.
Writer's block impending badly on my brain. I can only think of ZZZZzzZZZzzzzzzzZZZZz..
Wistful for Love
3:57 PM
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Ok! It's that time of the year.. people talking about bonues and what they are gonna shop with the bonus. I think it's time I lock myself up in my house lah. Seeing people shop here and there make me heart pain onli lah. Haiz..Can't wait for my turn. Sabar menanti jer lah. For now, telan air liur aje. I know there will be my turn where I shall a go at shopping without thinking even once about spending the money. ya man!! in my dreams.
I know I am not that sort of person. I will not spend money unnecessarily like that. Even when I do have money, I will think if the stuff is worth the money and if I will fully utilize it. My most expensive jeans to date was my Levi's jeans. That's all. My most expensive buy? My laptop.
I dunno lah eh, I guess I will never be that shopaholic I want to. A good thing lah I think hehe. kalau tak, pokai ler gue.I would rather have one bag and use it till dah koyak rabak rather than buy every bag I set my eyes on. No matter how cheap or much much discount it is on. The money can be spent on my kids and the house.
But of cos, lain ah crita kalau orang ada spare moolah. I guess I dun have to match everything with everything else. Bankrupt gitu nanti. Mebe a few variety of each like bag, shoes shirts and pants will do. As long as I can mix and match. That's be enuff for me.
Anyone been to Ikea Tampines yet? erkeke ..That, I foresee will be the place I might be spending most of my money at. Danger !!! Danger!!! Keep away from Ikea!!
Wistful for Love
1:23 PM
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