Why was I such a BITCH
For those of you who know me, you would say I'm a relatively nice person rite? I mean for the occasional headwinds(kepala angin lah) of coz! I try not to trouble you as much as I can be it my financial problems or wateva! Most to most I just need a shoulder to cry on a sympathetic ear or in case of the blog the EYE!
Well my beloved hubby, out of goodwill, on the 27th June lent this WOMAN some money. This WOMAN(a 23 yr old self-proclaimed BITCH)as we shall call her, never really kept in contact with us. She was someone we met on the Internet chat. So my hubby tot since she was desperate enuff to sms someone she barely knows,she must really be sick and sincere. A small loan of $60 which she promised will be returned 2 days later! ( Bear in mind, considering our financial situation, we are in no position to be lending anybody ANY money!Morever, when nobody was able to help us when we were down and out!)
After a week still no news from the WOMAN. She didn't reply my hub's smses neither did she pick up his calls!! And hub didn't tell em about this till this point!BOY! Was I mad!! Man that could be our marketing money for a week or even a can of formula for our son plus a pack of his diapers!!
So then I kept harping at hubby to get the money back form her. She promised day after day and we waited day after day for her to transfer the money to us. Its very dissapointing coz we also had debts to pay and things to buy. That small amount of $60 would go such a longgggg way for us!!
So after another week, I got her no from hubby yesterday and called her! Since she didn't know my number she picked up my call.
8th July, 11am
Me : Hi WOMAN! This is Nanie!
WOMAN:(After few seconds of silence,while she gets her act
together)Oh hi!! Hey Kak I was supposed to transfer the money!Dun worry I still have the acct no!I have a lunch meeting now and will tranfer money later!I was in JB the whole of last week coz a relative passed awayy!(the least she could have done was to reply the sms cant she?And it was already Thursday!! Wat happend on Mon-WED?!)
Me :Pleaseeeeeeeeee do coz we really need the money !
WOMAN:Ok sure I will!
By 4pm, still nothing,so I smsed her.
Me : How long does your lunch take? We need the money. We are waiting for it rite now! ( Hubby's outside waiting for her to trnasfer the money so he can buy some things for tour son!)
WOMAN:I was stuck in the meeting!! I WILL DO IT BY TONITE!!
By 8 pm, still nothing,so vulgarities were starting to come out of me and hub's mouths!! try being in my shoes people!!
8.30pm
Me : Hey WOMAN! We never disturbed you. This our hard earned money yet you are making it seem like we are the ones who are begging you for money! Please understand that we need the money badly!
Not even a reply from her!
10pm
ME : Dun make me do things that I dun wanna do! I dun wanna be a bitch but if you still dun pay me, I will do things that will shame you!
Still no reply siah!So the smsing continued this morning!
9th July, 9.22am
Me : why are u being such a bitch to us? Wat did we do to you?
10.58am
Me : U duna wanna respond?Ok! Dun blame me for being mean!
LO AND BEHOLD!! I got a reply!!
11am
WOMAN : Who is this? This is WOMAN'S cousin. WOMAN is in hospital, She has a high fever!
Me : YA RITE! Any more new ploys?Might as well say she's so she dun have to pay us back back OUR money!
WOMAN :(or her cousin!Allahuallam!) GOD! She's in hospital! she been having fever for 4 week now!I tell her when she wakes up!
Me : Sorry to hear but really sick of hearing her excuses! She's been promising to pay our money for 2 weeks! I am not a bad person but when someone does this to my family, I cant swallow it!
Woman : I understand.
ME : She really in hospital huh??(Of coz with a tone of disbelief!!)Fine then! Gimme her ward and which hospital!
WOMAN : Ward blah blha of blah blah hospital!(When I called the hospital,there no such patient!
ME : Nope ! I gues u dun understand!Wat happened to u WOMAN? U used to be such a nice ?Its sad u turned out to be like this WOMAN. We have major problmes to bt we dun be a bitch to others!!
WOMAN: I'm not WOMAN, I'M ****.
ME : Watever lah.BTW I called the hospital there no such patient!
WOMAN : I am not WOMAN! Stop screaming at me!
Me : I am not screaming at you! So, any more lies?Wats her full name? I checked with the hospital no such person
WOMAN : U should know! Nevermind, you'll know soon enuff
ME : WHY? (At this point, I WAS getting bitchy!Cant help it lah! So fed up oredi!)Gonna put up her pic in the orbituary?
WOMAN : Mebbe!
ME: Well then dun put in the verse where you ask people to halalkan her food and drinks and debts coz I sure as hell will not halalkan!!
After talking to someone, I found out she played the same ploy over someone else!! Hows that??
1237pm.
Me : Hey guess wat?I juz found out that u've been doing this for some time now!Well, I'd better tell everyone to be careful. Gotto go! Gotto post some warnings on some websites!
ME : I'm gonna let all your blogging mates know about you!Dun think that juz becoz I keep a low profile I'm a pushover
GUESS WHO REPLIED??? IT was the almost high fever patient herself!!
12.43:
WOMAN : Eh halo! As much as I would like to return your cash. i hafta get it from my mum who needs it too! I'll do it by tonite latest! Stop pushing me!And blardy hell! I'm sick! Been sick for the past 4 weeks!
ME : Anymore ploys?we have reached the point where we dun believe wat u say anymore! No trust!People who dun keep their promises dun earn it!You are rite though! You are a bitch! Proud of being one? You should be ashamed!!!!
WOMAN : Say wat you want! I guess once you get your money u'll shut up?and I WILL make it happen!by 8pm tonite, check your acct, if you still dun have it, get back to me!
ME : When i get the money, I'll convey my appreciation to ALLAH! Finally my son will get his milk!!
So tats the story!! For those of you who knows me, would you believe I would have done that? You know the kinda life I lead! You know my living conditions and my financial situation! So wat pushed me to be who I am not? I am usually not such a BITCH!!Wat I had well, money IS the root of all evil! Sigh its been a loooonggggg day!!
Wistful for Love
12:43 PM
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